Friday, October 3, 2008

绝对经典! 中国商人太聪明了!

中國大陸的內褲廠商搶先註冊了兩個商標

男裝內褲叫【鳥巢】、女裝內褲叫【水立方】

其廣告口號是:

同一個地方、同一個夢想

Saturday, September 27, 2008

KADAR KOMPAUN BARU SAMAN TRAFIK - malaysia

KADAR KOMPAUN BARU
SAMAN TRAFIK

Makluman:
Kadar kompaun baru saman trafik adalah untuk semua saman

BIL

JENIS

KADAR KOMPAUN LAMA

KADAR KOMPAUN BARU

KESALAHAN

KENDERAAN

1.

KEMALANGAN
(TIDAK MELIBATKAN KES NC)

LORI / BAS /
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL

RM 300
RM 300
RM 300

RM 200
RM 150
RM 100

2.

PANDU LAJU

LORI/ BAS/
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL

RM 150
RM 150
RM 150

RM 90
RM 70
RM 50

3.

TIDAK PAKAI TALIPINGGAN KELEDAR

TEKSI
VAN
4WD / KERETA

RM 150
RM 80
RM 70

RM 50
RM 50
RM 50

4.

KESALAHAN YANG TIDAK BOLEH DI KOMPAUN

SEMUA KESALAHAN TIDAK BOLEH DIKOMPAUN MENGIKUT KAEDAH-KAEDAH PENGANGKUTAN JALAN (PENGOMPAUN KESALAHAN) 2003 CTH: KEMALANGAN MAUT, MEMANDU DALAM KEADAAN MABUK, PEMANDU DI BAWAH UMUR TANPA LESEN, MEMANDU DENGAN CUAI DAN MERBAHAYA, TIADA PERLINDUNGAN INSURAN, LUMBA HARAM.

NO COMPOUND
(NC)

NO COMPOUND
(NC)

5.

TIDAK PAKAI TOPI KELEDAR

MOTOSIKAL

RM 70

RM 30

6.

TIDAK BOLEH BUAT PUSINGAN 'U'

LORI/ BAS/
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL

RM 200
RM 100
RM 70

RM 90
RM 70
RM 50

7.

POTONG CARA BAHAYA - POTONG 'Q'

LORI/ BAS/
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL

RM 200
RM 100
RM 70

RM 90
RM 70
RM 50

8.

MENERUSKAN PERJALANAN SEMASA ISYARAT LAMPU MERAH

LORI/ BAS/
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL

RM 200
RM 200
RM 150

RM 200
RM 150
RM 100

9.

MEMANDU GUNA TELEFON BIMBIT/ALAT KOMUNIKASI

LORI/ BAS/
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL

RM 200
RM 100
RM 70

RM 90
RM 70
RM 50

10.

TIDAK BERI LALUAN SEBELUM MEMBELOK

LORI/ BAS/
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL

RM 200
RM 100
RM 70

RM 90
RM 70
RM 50


11.


KESALAHAN LESEN MEMANDU


LORI/ BAS/
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL


RM 150
RM 80
RM 70


RM 90
RM 70
RM 30

12.

KESALAHAN LESEN KENDERAAN MOTOR (ROAD TAX)

LORI/ BAS/
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL

RM 150
RM 80
RM 70

RM 90
RM 70
RM 30

13.

MEMANDU DI LORONG KECEMASAN

LORI/ BAS/
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL

RM 200
RM 100
RM 70

RM 90
RM 70
RM 50

14.

KES WARAN

LORI/ BAS/
4WD / TEKSI / VAN / KERETA
MOTOSIKAL

RM 300
RM 300
RM 300

SEKALI GANDA DARI HARGA TAWARAN TETAPI TIDAK MELEBIHI RM 300



KAUNTER-KAUNTER DI JABATAN PENGANGKUTAN JALAN (JPJ)
1.
JPJ JOHOR BAHRU

2.
JPJ KUANTAN

3.
JPJ KUALA TERENGGANU

4.
JPJ IPOH, PERAK

5..
JPJ TAIPING, PERAK

6.
JPJ WANGSA MAJU, KUALA LUMPUR


MASA OPERASI : HARI BEKERJA - 0830HRS HINGGA 1600 HRS

HARI CUTI - TIADA






PUSAT PEMBAYARAN DI KAUNTER-KAUNTER LUAR

1.
PPK GIANT, JOHOR BAHRU, JOHOR

2.
PPK TER-ONE SEREMBAN NEGERI SEMBILAN

3.
PPK MEGAMALL , SEBERANG PERAI (T) PULAU PINANG

4.
PPK PRANGIN MALL, TIMUR LAUT PULAU PINANG

5.
PPK JAYA JUSCO, PETALING JAYA SELANGOR

6.
PPK THE MINES, PETALING JAYA, SELANGOR

7.
I.O.I SUBANG JAYA, PUCHONG, SELANGOR

8.
PPK JAYA, IPOH PERAK.


MASA OPERASI : HARI BERKERJA - 1600 HRS HINGGA 2100

HARI CUTI - 1400 HRS HINGGA 2100 HRS

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

FW: Credit Card " RM250 Limited Liability "

The limit of your liability for a lost or stolen credit card is RM250.00

under Rule 13.2 of the Bank Negara rules on credit card if it has been

fraudulently used. Please note this limit and ensure that your bank does

not overcharge you should your card have been used illegally.

CARDHOLDERS need not pay more than RM250 whenever their lost or stolen

credit cards are used by others. Yet, oftentimes, they end up paying much

more.


This is because Bank Negara has not informed cardholders that they do not

have to pay more than RM250 for fraudulent transactions carried out using

their lost or stolen cards, when they had not acted fraudulently and had

informed the banks about the lost or stolen cards as soon as possible.

This protection is given under Clause 13.2 of Bank Negara's Credit Card

Guideline ("The cardholder's maximum liability for unauthorised

transactions as a consequence of a lost or stolen credit card shall be

confined to a limit specified by the issuer of credit cards, which shall

not exceed RM250 provided the cardholder has not acted fraudulently or has

not failed to inform the issuer of credit cards as soon as reasonably

practicable after having found that his credit card is lost or stolen").

Banks know about Clause 13.2 but have chosen to ignore it. Instead they

pursue cardholders for the fraudulent transactions.

They will tell cardholders that a clause in the credit card contracts

states that all transactions carried out before the loss of the cards are

reported to the banks, are deemed to be carried out by the cardholders.

Many cardholders then pay up because they are unaware of the RM250 limited

liability.

Bank Negara should rule that:

*THE RM250 maximum liability on fraudulent transactions is highlighted to

cardholders in the card agreements as well as in the monthly card

statements.

*BANKS are not allowed to insert any clause in the card agreement which is

contrary to Clause 13.2.

*BANKS should refund all money in excess of the RM250 collected from

cardholders whose cases clearly come under Clause 13.2.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

A touching story

While I was walking around in a Target store, when I saw a Cashier hand this little boy some money back.
The boy couldn't have been more than 5 or 6 years old.

The Cashier said, 'I'm sorry, but you don't have enough money to buy this doll.'

Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him: ''Granny,

are you sure I don't have enough money?''

The old lady replied: ''You know that you don't have enough money to buy this doll, my dear.''

Then she asked him to stay there for just 5 minutes while she went to look a round. She left quickly.

The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand.

Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give this doll to.

'It's the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for Christmas.

She was sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her.'

I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus would bring it to her after all, and not to worry.


But he replied to me sadly. 'No, Santa Claus can't bring it to her where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there.'


His eyes were so sad while saying this. 'My Sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister.''


My heart nearly stopped.


The little boy looked up at me and said: 'I told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I come back from the mall.'


Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where he was laughing. He then told me 'I want mommy to take my picture with her so she won't forget me.'


'I love my mommy and I wish she doesn't have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister.'


Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly.

I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. 'Suppose we check

again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll?''


'OK' he said, 'I hope I do have enough.' I added some of my money to his with out him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll and even some spare money.


The little boy said: 'Thank you God for giving me enough money!'

Then he looked at me and added, 'I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommy could give It to my sister. He heard me!''


'I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn't dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose.''

'My mommy loves white roses.'


A few minutes later, the old lady returned and I left with my basket.


I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I started.


I couldn't get the little boy out of my mind.


Then I remembered a local news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a truck, who hit a car occupied by a young

woman and a little girl.


The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical

state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the

life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to recover from the coma.

Was this the family of the little boy?


Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news paper that the young woman had passed away.


I couldn't stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where the body of the young woman was exposed for people to see and make last wishes before her burial.


She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest.


I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling that my life had been changed for ever.. The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is

still, to this day, hard to imagine.

And in a fraction of a second, a drunk driver had taken all this away from him.

The value of a man or woman resides in what he or she gives, not in what they are capable of receiving...repost it as a story that touches your heart.

再富,也要窮孩子

再富,也要窮孩子

前些天,帶兒子去逛書局,他吵嚷著要我買一個精致、昂貴但不實用的鉛筆盒給他,最後我只買了一個麻雀雖小,五臟俱全的給他,他的嘴頓時呶了起來。接著,他看中一個設計小巧玲瓏,曲線優美,尺面圖案喧賓奪主地蓋過刻度的精美塑膠尺,但我買給他的卻是一把木尺。他的嘴嘟得更有"克夫"curve)了。我不作聲,打算晚上臨睡前才透過故事開導他。

自升為人父之後,我一再提醒自己要貫徹一個與東方社會價值觀反其道而行的育兒理念─「再富,也要窮孩子!」但幾年下來,我漸感難於堅持下去,直到有一天我輾轉讀到南京大學一佈告欄上,一封署名為"辛酸的父親"寫給其上大學兒子的"匿名信"之後,才又深感無論如何都得貫徹這個理念。

這封信很有轉述的價值,摘錄如下:


親愛的兒子:

儘管你傷透了我的心,但是你終究是我的兒子。雖然,自從你考上大學,成為我們家幾代唯一一個大學生後,分不清咱倆誰是誰的兒子

扛著行李陪你去大學報到,掛蚊帳、鋪被子、買飯菜票,甚至教你擠牙膏,這一切,在你看來是天經地義的,你甚至感覺你這個不爭氣的老爸給你這位爭氣的大學生兒子服務,是一件特沾光特榮耀的事

在你讀大學的第一學期,我們收到過你的三封信,加起來比一封電報長不了多少,言簡意賅,主題鮮明,字跡通篇潦草,只一個""字特別工整、而且清晰

大二以後,從你一封接一封的催款信上我們能感受到,言辭之急迫、語調之懇切,讓人感覺你今後大學畢業時可以去當個優秀的討債人……

最令我痛心的是,今年暑假,你居然偷改入學收費通知,虛報學費,沒想到你竟也運用這招,來對付生你、養你、愛你、疼你的父親母親,僅僅為了能出入卡拉OK及酒吧

我一想起這事就痛苦,就失眠!這已成為一種心病,病根就是你我親手撫養大卻又倍感陌生的大學生兒子。不知在大學你除了增加文化知識和社會閱歷之外,還能否長一丁點善良的心?


閱畢整封信,我想起妻懷孕時一位辛酸的父親,第一次上超音波做掃描時,我最關心的不是胎兒的性別,而是他到底是孤身上路抑或結伴而來雙胞胎甚或四胞胎?

我執教的學校,有二男二女各取名為"歡、樂、新、年"的四胞胎兄妹。我常看到他們的爸爸拎著四份一模一樣的便當盒,在籬笆外分四次塞給四名可愛的孩子;而每次看到他們蹦蹦跳跳地回課室享用,便知道他們對便當的"內涵"相當滿意。我身為窮教員,如果孩子是結伴而來,我所能給他們準備的便當的內容,恐怕會顧得了量而顧不了質。

我之所有這種顧慮,主要受華人「再苦,不能苦了孩子!」的傳統觀念所影響。直到有一天,我那移居澳洲多年的老同學回國探親,及時給我來個當頭棒喝。

據他說,澳洲人民生活富裕,然而他們在信奉上帝之餘更信奉:「再富,也要""孩子!」的教育理念。他們認為,在過份呵護下長大的孩子,將無法自立並且不懂感恩!

他回國的第二天,我陪他冒著風雨出外辦點事,他指著一個被包裹得像棉花團的華人小孩說:「孩子應當比大人少穿一件衣服!」他說在澳洲,即使冬天時也很難見到「棉花團」;如果是艷陽高照,母親們也會別有用心地、故意不撐開嬰兒車的遮陽棚。

我們東方家庭「再苦,也不能苦孩子!」的做法,看來有糾正的必要了。那天晚上,我思前想後,決定等將來孩子入學了,為他準備一些"其貌不揚"的便當,以窮他物質,富他精神。

我手頭上有這麼一則資料:美國費城納爾遜中學門口有兩尊雕塑,左邊是一隻蒼鷹,右邊是一匹奔馬。雕塑所要表達的不是我們耳熟能詳的鵬程萬里馬到成功,而是象徵一隻餓死的鷹和一匹被剝了皮的馬。

原來,那只蒼鷹,為了加速實現飛遍五大洲七大洋的偉大理想,練就了各種高超優雅的飛行本領,結果忘了學習覓食,只飛了四天就活活餓死了。那匹奔馬嫌第一位主人磨坊老闆給的活多,就乞求上帝把它換到農夫家;而後又嫌農夫餵的飼料少,又要求與其他馬對調,最後到了皮匠家不必幹活,飼料又多,好不愜意。然而沒過多少天,它的皮就被皮匠剝下來做了皮革!

由此可窺見,一個缺乏起碼的獨立生存能力及不懂感恩的人,無論他有多大的才華,日後有多了不起的成就,都不算是一個健全的人,都是一個生命有缺憾的人。

動 物界有一套超越萬物之靈的育兒理念,許多動物在它們的幼兒很羸弱時,會把它的幼崽含在嘴或在翼下,怕它們遇險而夭折;但當它們的孩子長大些,它們會毫不留 情地把孩子趕離自己身邊,讓它們獨自去經風雨、練本領,甚至不給孩子留下回頭路!只有這麼做,孩子才能經得起任何風浪之襲擊,才能夠絕處逢生。

含在嘴或在翼下和趕離身邊,都是父母對孩子不同的愛的體現,連動物也深懂「慣子如殺子」的道理。

再富也要窮孩子,才能逼孩子學習獨立前行,學會感恩惜福。畢竟孩子的後半生我們不一定能參與……_____

Sunday, August 24, 2008

丟了翅膀仍是天使

非常感動的一篇文章
看完了有想哭的感覺

丟了翅膀仍是天使

*********** 丟了翅膀, 他仍是天使 ************
1
  當在外地出差的我坐飛機趕回來時,十個月的兒子新新已經被推出搶救室。醫生說持續的高燒也許損傷了腦神經,我要有心理準備接受可能的後遺症。
   老公兩天後才從國外回來。出院後,我們常常測試新新的聽力和視覺,沒有發現任何異常。我們終於放下忐忑的心。可漸漸地,我發現他開始瞪著無神的眼睛發 呆,或者呈現一種令我不安的笑容。當和新新一般大的孩子開始邁著步子,清脆地喊著爸爸媽媽的時候,新新依舊呆呆坐在那裡,傻傻地笑著。抱著他四處求醫,結 論同出一轍:新新的智力將會停留在幼兒期,除非發生奇蹟。
  那是段痛不欲生的日子,抱著孩子尋找各種可能的奇蹟,秘方、偏方,甚至針灸。那長長的針如同刺在我的心間,汗和淚伴著孩子淒厲的哭聲一起落下。我多麼希望這只是一場夢,夢醒後充滿靈氣的新新在對我甜甜地笑。我開始幻聽,總感覺新新在喊媽媽。
  我深深自責為了事業沒有照顧好兒子,卻不敢留在家裡面對。每天下班後沉默地摟著他,日復一日,淚流盡了,心也似乎麻木了。老公也因為家裡氣氛沉悶,漸漸變得很少回家吃飯。
  婆婆來看我們,說把新新帶走,讓我們再要一個孩子。我不假思索斷然拒絕,我不能那樣做!他沒有選擇地來到這個世界,又因為我的疏忽變成這樣,已經夠不幸了!把新新緊緊摟在懷裡,我不要別人分享對他的愛!
2
新新兩周歲生日那天,我才驚覺老公已經不再陪我們一起吃飯了,怕失去他的恐慌開始噬咬著我,使我覺得難以呼吸。直至深夜,一身酒氣踉踉蹌蹌的老公才踏進家門,我已經荒蕪的淚水終於又奔湧出來。老婆,我們再要一個孩子好嗎?我狠狠點著頭,與他緊緊相擁,抵死纏綿……
我又懷孕了!撫著逐漸隆起的小腹,有些苦澀的甜蜜。我仿佛比誰都期待這個孩子,卻又在內心裡抗拒這個孩子。看到新新向我伸來的手臂,我的心又湧起巨大的痛楚:新新,這個世界,除了媽媽誰還能愛你!
  我終於下定決心打掉這個孩子,可檢查結果使我震驚:我竟然懷了雙胞胎!
   2002年的夏天,一對漂亮的小女孩陽陽和月月降臨了。滿月以後,那對粉雕玉琢的小人,總是甜甜地笑,很少哭鬧。只要我一說話,頭就隨著我的聲音轉,讓 我充分享受到做媽媽的喜悅。我已經顧不上新新,無論我多麼約束自己,潛意識裡我已經開始忽略新新,只把他交給保姆,甚至開始討厭他那傻傻的樣子。
轉 眼,陽陽和月月會走了。新新一般不注意什麼,只是對這兩個妹妹格外敏感,常常注視她們的一舉一動,似乎帶著極大的興趣,而且不同於平時的眼神。我是不允許 他接近她們的,他只能那樣在一邊望著,可我控制不住陽陽和月月蹣跚邁向新新的腳步,她們同樣對新新表現出極大的興趣。而我卻捨不得強迫她們什麼,只是一次 又一次嚴厲地對新新說,記住,不許碰妹妹!不許碰妹妹!漸漸地,他對我有了怯意,我卻絲毫沒覺得有何不妥。
  一天,孩子們在午睡,保姆出去買菜,我去儲物間整理衣物。突然聽到孩子的哭聲,我連忙跑進臥室,看到新新正從床的欄杆間縫向外拉月月的兩根手指,手指 被卡住,新新還在用力向外拉。我一把拉過新新,照著他的手,狠狠拍打,不是告訴你不許碰妹妹,不許碰妹妹嗎!看你以後還碰不碰妹妹!我越打越生氣,似乎在 發洩對他積累的厭惡。我瘋了似的尋找可以用來打他的東西,直到看見鏡子裡自己魔鬼一樣的臉。我終於聽到孩子們的哭聲,終於看到蜷縮一團哭泣的新新,還有女 兒們的喊叫聲……

  保姆回來了,抱起新新,看著我餘怒未消的臉想說什麼,我擺擺手讓她抱新新回自己的房間。我哄著陽陽和月月,突然看到床上有幾塊動物餅乾,陽陽的 手裡還握著一塊要喂我。我連忙到月月那邊,果然月月那邊床下有幾塊餅乾,已經被我踩碎了。新新最喜歡吃動物餅乾,原來他拉妹妹的手是要給妹妹餅乾。我的心 被刺痛了,連忙到他的房間,他已經被保姆哄睡了,可還在睡夢裡抽搐著。我不禁泛起一陣酸楚,我這是怎麼了?我還是他的媽媽嗎?
  一天,我和 女兒們玩著擁抱的遊戲。我拍拍手,她們就喊著媽媽,張著小胳膊爭先恐後向我跑來,然後我們緊緊擁抱。這麼簡單的遊戲,她們卻樂此不疲,一遍又一遍。忽然, 新新也張開他的胳膊,向我跑來,含糊地說著,媽媽,媽媽。我簡直不相信自己的耳朵!我的兒子,自從來到這個世界,從沒開過口!緊緊摟住撲到懷裡的新新,我 哭了。已經對他沉睡的母愛被重新喚起,兒子,媽媽有多久沒摟過你,媽媽對不起你!
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  我終於開始認真思考我的孩子們,我有一個與眾不同的家庭,我竟然有三個孩子!他們正漸漸長大,將來要有他們自己的人生。等我離開這個世界時,只有他們之間才能互相照顧。尤其新新,他需要好多好多的愛。
  我不再分隔他們,而是常常告訴女兒們,要好好愛哥哥,因為沒有他,就沒有她們。我知道她們聽不懂,我只希望她們會記住我的話。
  我每天陪三個孩子做遊戲,唱歌,跳舞,為他們講故事。而新新,越來越有靈氣,不但會叫爸爸、妹妹了,還會含糊表達自己的需要,而且會隨著節奏跳些簡單的舞步。看著並成一排熟睡中的孩子們,我終於相信這個世界上有奇蹟,那就是愛,愛可以創造一切!
  陽陽和月月到了上幼稚園的年齡,我也該上班了。為了減少我的負擔,婆婆來商量著把新新接走。我猶豫再三,其實按新新現在的情況,勉強可以上幼稚園,可他畢竟和別的孩子不一樣,我害怕來自外界給他的傷害。
   新新被帶走的那個晚上,女兒們不肯上床睡覺,一定要等哥哥回來。她們閃著漂亮的大眼睛問我,哥哥什麼時候回來?為什麼哥哥不上幼稚園?我的心一凜,回答 她們,哥哥生病了,要好長時間才會好。她們又問。他會想我們的,為什麼我們不照顧他呢?快讓哥哥回來,我們會照顧他的。我的心緊了又緊,你們要乖乖的,只 要你們聽話,哥哥就會回來。她們終於乖乖睡下,而我在黑夜裡掛念著新新。兒子,你好嗎?
女兒們只去了三天幼稚園,就說什麼也不肯去了,告訴我幼稚園裡有好多好玩的玩具,還有好多的小朋友,還學習新歌,認字,英語,她們要等哥哥回來一起去。她 們充滿期盼的眼睛望著我,還帶有小小的挑釁。我訝於她們的執拗,耐著性子哄著她們,可她們卻怎麼也不肯答應。我沉下臉一手抱著一個,她們哇哇哭起來,媽媽 騙人,說只要我們乖,哥哥就會回來,我們都聽話了,可哥哥還是沒有回來!
   我的心猛地僵住了!壓抑的眼淚再也控制不住,你們的哥哥,他和別人不一樣,他永遠學不會那些東西!女兒們為我擦著淚,會的,會的,媽媽,哥哥能學會的, 我們會幫助他的!看著她們,我感到了做媽媽的歉疚,我只會一味逃避,以為自己很愛新新,卻不如孩子們充滿信心去面對。
  門鈴響,竟然是婆婆送新新回來了!幾天不見,新新瘦了好多。婆婆無奈地說,這幾天新新幾乎沒吃東西,也不肯睡覺,只一直哭,喊著妹妹,妹妹。她看了心裡實在難受,不得已就送回來了。
  女兒們興奮起來,拉著新新的手,開始講幼稚園的事情,還催促我為新新換最漂亮的衣服,他們要一起去幼稚園。
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  我找到園長,請求她讓我的孩子們在一起。因為按照新新的年齡應該上大班,可他的智力水準還不如小班的孩子。當看到我的女兒們一邊一個拉著兒子的手,並揮手和我再見的時候。我相信這個決定是對的,愛會為我們創造更多的奇蹟。
  每天從幼稚園回來,陽陽和月月都幫助新新復習一天學過的東西,而且不許我插手。我的女兒們是班裡最出色的孩子,學什麼都特別快,而且記得牢。我知道那 是因為她們要教哥哥,所以格外用心去學習。從沒看過比她們還有耐心的孩子,輪流一遍又一遍教著笨拙的新新,一個單詞往往要重複好多好多遍,甚至夢裡還在喃 喃。每次新新學會了,她們就會歡呼起來,然後學著幼稚園老師的樣子翹起大拇指說,哥哥你好棒,哥哥你真棒!而我的兒子,就看著妹妹,傻傻憨憨地笑著。
  老師要求每個孩子學習寫自己的名字,這對新新來講簡直是不可能的事情。可一個月後的一天,女兒們興奮地拉著兒子跑來告訴我,哥哥會寫自己的名字了
  我將信將疑地看著兒子在紙上歪歪扭扭地寫下兩個大大的"新 "字,尤其敖看到他們練習的本子,我小小的女兒們,竟然知道把哥哥的名字拆成筆劃來教,好幾個本子寫著他們循序漸進的過程,我再一次被女兒們的耐心折服得淚流滿面。
  一天,我去接他們。走到教室門口,聽到有個孩子喊著,你們的哥哥是個傻孩子!我一驚,連忙走進去。我示意正要阻止的老師,決定讓孩子們自己去面對。
  只見陽陽憋紅了小臉對那個孩子說,我的哥哥不是傻孩子,他是天使,他丟了翅膀,來到我們家,變成一個世界上最好的哥哥,他只不過還沒習慣人間的生活。孩子們發出"哇"的驚歎聲,你們的哥哥竟然是天使哎!
  老師含著眼淚摟過陽陽,對孩子們說,新新是我們班的天使,他會愛我們每個小朋友,還教會我們如何去愛別人。
   回家的路上,我的心被女兒編織的故事激蕩著。我問她們為什麼那麼愛哥哥,她們一起回答,因為沒有哥哥就沒有我們啊!忽地淚又盈滿我的眼,原來她們已經牢 牢記住了我的話,那麼小,就學會了愛和感恩。他們是上天賜給彼此的天使,也是上天送給我最珍貴的禮物。因為他們,我才知道,做媽媽是那麼值得驕傲和幸福!

Friday, August 15, 2008

special blog from Malaysia

ha ha..special blog..is talking about "chicken". ha ha.. this is Chinese version...
http://mypaper.pchome.com.tw/news/piaoke

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