貨到再付款，這是很高招的騙術
貨到再付款，這是很高招的騙術網路廣告最近一些高價的東西，例如：手機、DVD、notebook、DC.....等都便宜的離譜，並告訴你〝收到貨再付款〞。 （不要以為〝收到貨再付款〞就不會被騙錢...）雖然你會收到全新的機器，而且操作正常。
心想：這樣應該就沒問題了，所以就把錢匯給他。
結果原來他是用假信用卡去訂貨，然後直接從郵購公司寄到你家，你以為已經收到貨，所以就匯錢給他，等到郵購公司發現是假信用卡時，追查貨物流向，就找上你家，貨不但被收，你還得澄清不是你使用假信用卡。
可以把這個郵件轉寄給你所認識的每個人，以免有人被騙！
Sunday, June 28, 2009
FW:所謂的曾經，就是幸福 ~ 很感人
中午，我站在學校大門口當交通導護，幫助一年級的小朋友放學。
卓新勇的母親，悄手悄腳提著一個便當在校門口。 被我一喊，她露出不好意思的表情。
「老師啊！．．．」
「哎呀！我不是跟妳講了嗎？學校不喜歡家長替孩子送便當。
如果每個媽媽都像妳這樣，學校大門就擠滿了人，那樣，我們怎麼放學呢？」
「我知道！我知道！」哼！知道了還送，簡直是明知故犯。
「妳不會讓他自己帶便當嗎！」
「我知道！我知道！」這些話，不曉得說了幾次。
每次一到中午，送便當的家長和放學的一年級小朋友，常常相撞在一起，造成相當的困擾。
卓新勇是一位沈默寡言，乖巧內向的孩子。
有次上課，他竟然打瞌睡，我很訝異，把他叫起來。
「怎麼了？」他一臉迷惘站起來，不回答。
第二天上課，也是這樣，我實在受不了，狠狠地把他叫過來。
「你到底怎麼了？」
我已經氣得半死，口氣已經控制不住。
突然，他垂頭淌下淚水。我暗自一驚。
「說呀！到底為什麼上課要打瞌睡呢？」
我媽媽住院了！昨天一直在醫院陪她。」
我一聽愣住了，頓時，心中的怒氣消失了，代之而起的是無限慚愧，「她為什麼住院呢？」
「是肺癌！」我一聽，心都涼到腳底。
心中想到身體贏弱的卓新勇。
如果，不幸那天來臨，他將如何繼續往後漫長的歲月呢？
想到這兒，不禁鼻酸。吃飯時，妻子在餵兒子吃飯，
我不禁想起，以前卓新勇的母親偷偷摸摸替他送便當。
第二天下班後，我騎著機車到醫院探望他母親。
幾個禮拜沒見，卓新勇的母親瘦得不成人形，蒼白的臉，光禿的頭，簡直不敢相信就是她。
她看到我，顯得很驚訝，努力想站起來，但是，一咳嗽，整個人歪了一邊。
「不要站起來！不要站起來！」
「老師！謝﹍﹍謝謝你！」她吃力喊著，眼眶消出淚水。
在醫院的走廊，卓新勇的父親對我說：「只剩下兩個月了！嗚！我﹍真的不知要怎麼辦？」他老淚縱橫。
回到學校，報告校長。
「他爸爸已經六十多歲了，現在母親又將離開人間，是不是我們可以發動全校募款。不管多少，都可以幫助他。」校長爽快答應。
經過幾天募款活動，我們總算募到五萬二千一百二十元。
把錢送到醫院時，卓新勇的母親已經在昏迷中。
「我們準備今天送他回家！」卓新勇的父親，臉形憔悴得發白。我一聽，心頭抽搐一陣。
「老師！能不能幫個忙？」
「請說！我能夠做到的，我一定答應。」
「他前幾天，一直拉著卓新勇的手，喊著：媽媽不能再替你送便當了！我想，請老師再讓她送最後一次便當，只有送便當時，他才真正感受到一位為人母親的榮耀。」 聽到這兒，我百感交集地點點頭。
中午，一輛救護車呼拉拉開到學校大門口。
卓親勇的父親和一名醫護人員，推著擔架上的人。
我淚水盈眶，站在旁邊，伴當交通導護老師。
「到了！到了！」卓新勇的父親買了一個便當，躺在擔架上的卓新勇的母親，伸出瘦細蒼白的手提著便當，在旁邊人員推送下，慢慢靠近大門口的鐵門。
在鐵門的另一邊，卓新勇伸出右手，接過母親的便當。
「媽！」卓新勇嚎啕大哭。
這時，我清楚見到她母親瘦削的臉頰，抽搐了一下，彷彿想說話，但是，又說不出來。
「媽！我不要！我不要妳走！」卓新勇呼天搶地叫著。
我的淚水，再也控制不住，嘩嘩而落。我暗恨自己，以前是多麼殘忍！
隔天，卓新勇的母親就去世了。
卓新勇的母親出殯後。
一天， 卓新勇的父親來到我辦公室，遞給我一包牛皮紙。
老師！這是你和學生們幫助我的錢，我認為還有更多的學生，需要這筆錢，所以，還給你們。謝謝你熱心幫忙。」說完，錢一放，就掉頭離去。
這筆錢彷彿生熱似的，直燙著我心坎。
我天天找卓新勇聊天話家常。深怕他經不起喪母的打擊。
「老師！你放心！我很好！你不要一直替我擔心！」
卓新勇對我說「我很早就知道，我母親就要死了，我也不是不想聽你話，叫媽媽不要送便當。因為，一天當中，只有中午，我才能吃到我媽媽煮的飯。」
我心頭一凜，「為什麼呢？」
她很虛弱，家裡都是爸爸在煮飯。只有中午爸爸不在，她才能偷偷背著爸爸煮飯。是她堅持要送便當的。」說完，卓新勇淌出淚水。
很感人吧！我看到一半就忍不住眼淚就掉下來了！
各位～趁著父母健在的時候，好好的孝順他們喔！
不然........將來後悔也就來不及了！
一直以為幸福在遠方，在可以追逐的未來。
我的雙眼保持著眺望，我的雙耳仔細聆聽，唯恐疏忽錯過。
後來才發現---那些握過的手，唱過的歌，流過的淚，愛過的人......
所謂的曾經，就是幸福
卓新勇的母親，悄手悄腳提著一個便當在校門口。 被我一喊，她露出不好意思的表情。
「老師啊！．．．」
「哎呀！我不是跟妳講了嗎？學校不喜歡家長替孩子送便當。
如果每個媽媽都像妳這樣，學校大門就擠滿了人，那樣，我們怎麼放學呢？」
「我知道！我知道！」哼！知道了還送，簡直是明知故犯。
「妳不會讓他自己帶便當嗎！」
「我知道！我知道！」這些話，不曉得說了幾次。
每次一到中午，送便當的家長和放學的一年級小朋友，常常相撞在一起，造成相當的困擾。
卓新勇是一位沈默寡言，乖巧內向的孩子。
有次上課，他竟然打瞌睡，我很訝異，把他叫起來。
「怎麼了？」他一臉迷惘站起來，不回答。
第二天上課，也是這樣，我實在受不了，狠狠地把他叫過來。
「你到底怎麼了？」
我已經氣得半死，口氣已經控制不住。
突然，他垂頭淌下淚水。我暗自一驚。
「說呀！到底為什麼上課要打瞌睡呢？」
我媽媽住院了！昨天一直在醫院陪她。」
我一聽愣住了，頓時，心中的怒氣消失了，代之而起的是無限慚愧，「她為什麼住院呢？」
「是肺癌！」我一聽，心都涼到腳底。
心中想到身體贏弱的卓新勇。
如果，不幸那天來臨，他將如何繼續往後漫長的歲月呢？
想到這兒，不禁鼻酸。吃飯時，妻子在餵兒子吃飯，
我不禁想起，以前卓新勇的母親偷偷摸摸替他送便當。
第二天下班後，我騎著機車到醫院探望他母親。
幾個禮拜沒見，卓新勇的母親瘦得不成人形，蒼白的臉，光禿的頭，簡直不敢相信就是她。
她看到我，顯得很驚訝，努力想站起來，但是，一咳嗽，整個人歪了一邊。
「不要站起來！不要站起來！」
「老師！謝﹍﹍謝謝你！」她吃力喊著，眼眶消出淚水。
在醫院的走廊，卓新勇的父親對我說：「只剩下兩個月了！嗚！我﹍真的不知要怎麼辦？」他老淚縱橫。
回到學校，報告校長。
「他爸爸已經六十多歲了，現在母親又將離開人間，是不是我們可以發動全校募款。不管多少，都可以幫助他。」校長爽快答應。
經過幾天募款活動，我們總算募到五萬二千一百二十元。
把錢送到醫院時，卓新勇的母親已經在昏迷中。
「我們準備今天送他回家！」卓新勇的父親，臉形憔悴得發白。我一聽，心頭抽搐一陣。
「老師！能不能幫個忙？」
「請說！我能夠做到的，我一定答應。」
「他前幾天，一直拉著卓新勇的手，喊著：媽媽不能再替你送便當了！我想，請老師再讓她送最後一次便當，只有送便當時，他才真正感受到一位為人母親的榮耀。」 聽到這兒，我百感交集地點點頭。
中午，一輛救護車呼拉拉開到學校大門口。
卓親勇的父親和一名醫護人員，推著擔架上的人。
我淚水盈眶，站在旁邊，伴當交通導護老師。
「到了！到了！」卓新勇的父親買了一個便當，躺在擔架上的卓新勇的母親，伸出瘦細蒼白的手提著便當，在旁邊人員推送下，慢慢靠近大門口的鐵門。
在鐵門的另一邊，卓新勇伸出右手，接過母親的便當。
「媽！」卓新勇嚎啕大哭。
這時，我清楚見到她母親瘦削的臉頰，抽搐了一下，彷彿想說話，但是，又說不出來。
「媽！我不要！我不要妳走！」卓新勇呼天搶地叫著。
我的淚水，再也控制不住，嘩嘩而落。我暗恨自己，以前是多麼殘忍！
隔天，卓新勇的母親就去世了。
卓新勇的母親出殯後。
一天， 卓新勇的父親來到我辦公室，遞給我一包牛皮紙。
老師！這是你和學生們幫助我的錢，我認為還有更多的學生，需要這筆錢，所以，還給你們。謝謝你熱心幫忙。」說完，錢一放，就掉頭離去。
這筆錢彷彿生熱似的，直燙著我心坎。
我天天找卓新勇聊天話家常。深怕他經不起喪母的打擊。
「老師！你放心！我很好！你不要一直替我擔心！」
卓新勇對我說「我很早就知道，我母親就要死了，我也不是不想聽你話，叫媽媽不要送便當。因為，一天當中，只有中午，我才能吃到我媽媽煮的飯。」
我心頭一凜，「為什麼呢？」
她很虛弱，家裡都是爸爸在煮飯。只有中午爸爸不在，她才能偷偷背著爸爸煮飯。是她堅持要送便當的。」說完，卓新勇淌出淚水。
很感人吧！我看到一半就忍不住眼淚就掉下來了！
各位～趁著父母健在的時候，好好的孝順他們喔！
不然........將來後悔也就來不及了！
一直以為幸福在遠方，在可以追逐的未來。
我的雙眼保持著眺望，我的雙耳仔細聆聽，唯恐疏忽錯過。
後來才發現---那些握過的手，唱過的歌，流過的淚，愛過的人......
所謂的曾經，就是幸福
Sunday, June 21, 2009
一枝草能絆倒一個人，不良的飲食習慣影響人的一生！
( 例一 ) 兩兄弟，一個 20歲，一個 18歲都洗腎。
兩兄弟，從小喜歡喝鋁箔包飲料，
從未喝過白開水、礦泉水。
( 例二 ) 台大三年級生，癌症第三期。
小小留學生，回國後還是洋派，
每餐漢堡 +可樂，
罹癌。
醫生勸他吃淡一點，但沒有漢堡可樂嚥不下。
( 例三 ) 小女孩 23歲肝癌。
小女孩回家不喜歡一個人開伙，
吃泡麵不是乾的，就是泡的。
年紀輕，就得此症，老師、學校都沒教過，
父母更是不知道壞習慣，造成如此下場。
說明：
一、 泡麵:又名 (泡命)。
高熱量、高油脂、高磷、高鹽、高防腐劑、低纖維 ,標準致命食品。
二、 可樂:(包括所有碳酸飲料， 俗稱汽水)
l、讓維他命 B群與 Ca質流失。
2 、一罐有 13 顆方糖甜分。
3、喝一瓶→ 1/3 免疫暫時癱瘓。
4、 1 瓶/ 天→ 增加 5kg/ 年— 董氏基金會實驗。
5、國立陽明醫學院—將一隻蟑螂放入可樂內
→一星期內溶化消失 (不敢公佈，自己在家做實驗，?? 可用銅幣代替)。
6、可樂 —可用來燉豬腳 (易爛 )，洗大腸、田螺 (洗掉粘稠液 )。
PH 值 2.2 ，比工研醋還酸 10 倍。喝下肚，會如何，可想而知。
三、現在滿街 珍珠奶茶、紅茶、綠茶店:
l 、糖，在西洋俗稱魔鬼。代糖，稱大魔鬼。
2 、糖一－粘答答，造成血液又濃又稠，缺營養又缺氧。
3、糖與蛋白質結合→粘多糖蛋白 ( 俗稱粘稠的黃痰) 。
4 、粘多糖蛋白 : 健康隱形殺手。
貯存於淋巴、扁桃腺…… ，人體排泄系統，只能排糞便、尿、汗，卻不能排出粘液的痰。
80%腺細胞癌 (乳癌、攝護腺癌、胃臟、膀胱… )與粘液有關。
多喝含糖 ( 代糖)類飲料，為日後－－骨質疏鬆，洗腎，奠下基礎。
一點就著火，上冒黑煙，下滴的都是油。
油炸的油，廠商為了降低成本，均採用反式脂肪酸 ( 便宜，易保存、重覆使用，香、酥、脆 )。
l、 反式脂肪酸→一般植物油 (順式脂肪酸 )，加工經高溫高壓粹取，再經脫臭、脫色、脫酸而成的。
自然界中不存在。會使肝臟造成傷害，破壞細胞膜、再生及複製，細胞缺陷… …。
2 、炸雞、薯條、鹽酥雞、泡麵、甜甜圈…… 。
麥當勞、肯德基，在美用此油均被控告。美已開始規定業者，不得使用反式脂肪酸炸食物。
你有多少不良的飲食習慣呢？我們不能決定生命的長度，卻能改變生命—寬度與品質！
FW: Raining in New York City
A woman and her ten-year-old son were riding in a cab in New York
City.
It was raining and all the hookers were standing under the awnings.
"Mom," said the boy, "what are all those women doing?"
"They're waiting for their husbands to get off work," she replied.
The cabbie turns around and says, "Geez lady, why don't you tell him
the truth? They're hookers, boy! They have sex with men for money."
The little boy's eyes get wide and he says, "Is that true, Mom?"
His mother, glaring hard at the cabbie, answers in the affirmative.
After a few minutes, the kid asks, "Mom, what happens to the babies
those women have?"
"Most of them become cab drivers," she said.
City.
It was raining and all the hookers were standing under the awnings.
"Mom," said the boy, "what are all those women doing?"
"They're waiting for their husbands to get off work," she replied.
The cabbie turns around and says, "Geez lady, why don't you tell him
the truth? They're hookers, boy! They have sex with men for money."
The little boy's eyes get wide and he says, "Is that true, Mom?"
His mother, glaring hard at the cabbie, answers in the affirmative.
After a few minutes, the kid asks, "Mom, what happens to the babies
those women have?"
"Most of them become cab drivers," she said.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Sunday, June 14, 2009
FW: “基孔*肯雅症*（Chikungunya）在槟城的蔓延
在这里，我想呼吁大家注意有关“基孔*肯雅症*（Chikungunya）在槟城的蔓延。
我刚刚昨天参加我姨丈的丧礼。
我家人亲戚已经有六人感染这个病毒，两人还留医治疗。
我姨丈也是其中一个感染的病人，但是他自己吃了它自己买的抗生素
（Antibiotik），导致他心脏衰弱而过世的。
*原来这个病是不可以吃抗生素的！但是这个病状是由发烧开始，假如某些医生不知
道，把它当作普通发烧，那么他就会给你*退烧片和抗生素！请注意！！！！！
最明显的症状是病患会全身发红，骨骼关节发痛，手脚肌肉僵硬不能走动，而且还会
浮肿。
如果你的血压过低，还必须留医深切观察。
我听说其他医院（中央医院和PMC）还不知道这疾病的蔓延严重性。
请到南华医院，你就会看到已经有许多人躺在那里了！
*请大家保持大家的健康，尽量多喝水，让身体不要发热.*
我刚刚昨天参加我姨丈的丧礼。
我家人亲戚已经有六人感染这个病毒，两人还留医治疗。
我姨丈也是其中一个感染的病人，但是他自己吃了它自己买的抗生素
（Antibiotik），导致他心脏衰弱而过世的。
*原来这个病是不可以吃抗生素的！但是这个病状是由发烧开始，假如某些医生不知
道，把它当作普通发烧，那么他就会给你*退烧片和抗生素！请注意！！！！！
最明显的症状是病患会全身发红，骨骼关节发痛，手脚肌肉僵硬不能走动，而且还会
浮肿。
如果你的血压过低，还必须留医深切观察。
我听说其他医院（中央医院和PMC）还不知道这疾病的蔓延严重性。
请到南华医院，你就会看到已经有许多人躺在那里了！
*请大家保持大家的健康，尽量多喝水，让身体不要发热.*
FW: Important: NEW FRAUD TACTIC TO GET INFORMATION.
Beware of a new fraud tactic. This just unbelievably happened to me
yesterday (June 3rd 2009). It made me went on a round of frenzies to
lodge report at a police station, cancelling all my credit cards and
changing all my savings/current accounts.
At around 1pm yesterday, I received a call from an Ambank number
which went into an automated machine informing me that I was about to
make a payment amounting to RM3,800.60 and to press 1 to confirm the
transaction or press 9 to speak to Customer Service. Caught by
surprise of such a call, I pressed 9 to speak to their Customer
Service. A guy by the name of Brandon answered and questioned me
whether I am about to make a RM3,800.60 payment which I said no. He
later asked whether I am now at KLIA. I straight away told him no and
that I am now at Kulim, Kedah. This Brandon guy then said that this
looks like a scam and he will immediately stop the RM3,800.60
transaction.
He further asked me whether I had recently applied for any credit
card which I said no. He informs me that there was an application for
an Ambank Mastercard under my name dated April 2nd 2009 with a credit
limit of RM10k and to date, the card has been used up to about
RM5,600++. He further advised me to immediately lodge a report with
Bank Negara’s Pusat Pengurusan Kad Kredit Palsu. I do not have the
number and he offered to connect me to Bank Negara where I spoke to
another guy named Charlie.
The call sounded really authentic and this Charlie guy pretended not
knowing anything and had me told him the story of what happened from A
to Z. Once I finished with my story, this Charlie guy asked me whether
do I suspect any close family members or friends misusing my personal
data for this purpose. He says it could be possible and it is very
important that I do not reveal a single thing to anybody until 6th
June 2009 (3 days) in order for the investigation to take place. He
asked me to provide him all of my banking and credit card details so
that he can monitor and track any unusual activity. I was also advised
not to make any banking or credit card transaction during these 3 days
so that proper investigation can be carried out and the unlawful
person can be intercepted should he/she use the card or make any
banking move.
I called my wife after all this ordeal informing her of what had
happened. She was highly skeptical and told me that things doesn’t
sound right as the so called Bank Negara would not have asked for all
banking details including savings/current accounts if this was just a
fraud card case. She advised me to make another call to Ambank to
check on more details of the so called Ambank Mastercard applied on
April 2nd, including to where was the credit card sent to?
I called Ambank immediately, looking for the Mr. Brandon I spoke to
earlier and the Ambank officer told me that there is no Mr. Brandon in
the Customer Service Department. I related the whole story of what had
taken place an hour earlier and the bank officer advised me to calm
down and to relax. She informs me that this is a fraud case and I need
to lodge a police report immediately. She also informs me that the
Bank Negara telephone number and extension provided to me by the Mr.
Charlie is a fake.
I was truly, truly dumbfounded!!! I have read so much about everyday
frauds and yet I still fall to this trap. I thought I was smart enough
to smell things like this but apparently, this new tactic really feeds
on human behavior when they are in a panicky situation. These guys are
really so so smooth that you tend to believe they are trying to solve
the woes that you are in.
I have been a victim and I hope it ends here. Please pass this on to
your loved ones to warn them of such a new tactic and to beware!!!!
yesterday (June 3rd 2009). It made me went on a round of frenzies to
lodge report at a police station, cancelling all my credit cards and
changing all my savings/current accounts.
At around 1pm yesterday, I received a call from an Ambank number
which went into an automated machine informing me that I was about to
make a payment amounting to RM3,800.60 and to press 1 to confirm the
transaction or press 9 to speak to Customer Service. Caught by
surprise of such a call, I pressed 9 to speak to their Customer
Service. A guy by the name of Brandon answered and questioned me
whether I am about to make a RM3,800.60 payment which I said no. He
later asked whether I am now at KLIA. I straight away told him no and
that I am now at Kulim, Kedah. This Brandon guy then said that this
looks like a scam and he will immediately stop the RM3,800.60
transaction.
He further asked me whether I had recently applied for any credit
card which I said no. He informs me that there was an application for
an Ambank Mastercard under my name dated April 2nd 2009 with a credit
limit of RM10k and to date, the card has been used up to about
RM5,600++. He further advised me to immediately lodge a report with
Bank Negara’s Pusat Pengurusan Kad Kredit Palsu. I do not have the
number and he offered to connect me to Bank Negara where I spoke to
another guy named Charlie.
The call sounded really authentic and this Charlie guy pretended not
knowing anything and had me told him the story of what happened from A
to Z. Once I finished with my story, this Charlie guy asked me whether
do I suspect any close family members or friends misusing my personal
data for this purpose. He says it could be possible and it is very
important that I do not reveal a single thing to anybody until 6th
June 2009 (3 days) in order for the investigation to take place. He
asked me to provide him all of my banking and credit card details so
that he can monitor and track any unusual activity. I was also advised
not to make any banking or credit card transaction during these 3 days
so that proper investigation can be carried out and the unlawful
person can be intercepted should he/she use the card or make any
banking move.
I called my wife after all this ordeal informing her of what had
happened. She was highly skeptical and told me that things doesn’t
sound right as the so called Bank Negara would not have asked for all
banking details including savings/current accounts if this was just a
fraud card case. She advised me to make another call to Ambank to
check on more details of the so called Ambank Mastercard applied on
April 2nd, including to where was the credit card sent to?
I called Ambank immediately, looking for the Mr. Brandon I spoke to
earlier and the Ambank officer told me that there is no Mr. Brandon in
the Customer Service Department. I related the whole story of what had
taken place an hour earlier and the bank officer advised me to calm
down and to relax. She informs me that this is a fraud case and I need
to lodge a police report immediately. She also informs me that the
Bank Negara telephone number and extension provided to me by the Mr.
Charlie is a fake.
I was truly, truly dumbfounded!!! I have read so much about everyday
frauds and yet I still fall to this trap. I thought I was smart enough
to smell things like this but apparently, this new tactic really feeds
on human behavior when they are in a panicky situation. These guys are
really so so smooth that you tend to believe they are trying to solve
the woes that you are in.
I have been a victim and I hope it ends here. Please pass this on to
your loved ones to warn them of such a new tactic and to beware!!!!
Friday, June 12, 2009
Thursday, June 11, 2009
FW: 倒数 / 一个很有意思的故事
从事投资顾问的我，从来都很爱自己的家人，爱自己的伴侣。至少
，我以为是这样。
我每天的主要任务是紧贴着香港及美国股市，就是这样，已经花掉大半生时间。余下的时间就安置在情人、朋友、及家人身上。为了《爱得太迟》的属性，为了对家人、情人的内疚感而流过眼泪，但泪痕风化后，仍虽继续为「将来
」而卖命。为了《无事常相见》的歌词，为了曾被冷落的好友而眼浅过，但深呼吸一口气，还是要营役余生。
为了未能抽空回家团年，为了未能抽空陪女朋友验身
，我们竟花得起宝贵的时间来冷战。但我想，父母、伴侣，都是最亲的人，应该会明白的。
我的生日快要来临，但没有期待过，因为，根本没甚么值得庆祝。反而，想一个人静下来，享受一刻的宁静。在南丫岛的度假屋内，我准备感受一个较孤单的生日。
在晚上，静坐在度假屋的露台，沐浴在带有点点盐份的微风中，整个世界都变得很宁静。突然，我迷迷糊糊的听见颇陌生的声音，我再细心一点听……
原来，他在跟我说话：「……年青人，我希望今年送您一份很特别的生日礼物，甚么也可以。」
我想，我大概已经进入了梦境，跟神仙对话。我微笑回应道：
「是神仙吗？那…… 我真的甚么愿望也可以提出？」
「对。」
「那，我就希望有一双眼，能够看透每一只股票升跌时间。」
「没有问题，那对眼睛已经给您了。」
梦醒了，一笑置之。
第二天，回到战场上，我看着升得颇急的「森力钢铁」，心想
「它还可以升多少天」呢，突然间，有个发光的「3」字浮在「森力钢铁」之上。三天后，它真的插式回落了。原来，这份生日礼物是……
真的。
我善用这双上天赐给我的「眼睛」，在股票市场嬴了很多场胜仗。不过，我已经有很多天没有见过家人和女朋友了。
今天回家，一推开门，就向着自己的房间走去，隐约的听 !
见妈妈说：「明天是爸爸生日，你可以回来吃饭吗？」不过，爸爸立即抢着说：「不用回来，你忙你的任务吧！」
我放下了任务包，就走到客厅跟爸爸说：「如果可以的话我会………
」突然，我看见爸爸的头顶出现了一个发光的数字……「35」。我立即给吓呆了。之后，我慢慢回到房间，
35天后，爸爸会……
爸爸生日那天，我尽能力完成手头上的任务，回到家，爸爸已经睡了。我在房间像小朋友的哭起来。三天后，我请了假期跟父母饮早茶，看见爸爸的发光的数字是「34」……原来，这是我还可以见他的次数。慢慢地，我也看见妈妈的头上浮现了「45」这个数字。原来，看着自己跟家人的相处日子在无情的倒数，心，是很痛，很痛的。
星期天，被我冷落了的女朋友终于来电，想见一见我
。我们就相约在又一城的COVA见面，因为我记得，她很想到
COVA吃甜品，但我一直未有时间陪她。我到了好一阵子，她还没有出现
……半小时后，我看见站在大门口的她……头上面出现了「1」字，我……还看见她身边多了一个「他」。这次之后，我们真的再也没有见面。
一个星期后，我辞掉了任务，尽量陪伴在家人的左右
，用储下来的积蓄跟他们去旅行，直至爸爸患了重病 ……
直至爸爸头上终于出现「单位」数字。最后陪伴爸爸的几天，我尽量逃避正面面对他，最多也只是低下头跟爸爸说话
，因为我不希望看见「3」、「2」、「1」。
在隐约看见爸爸的「1」字那刻，我退出了病房，走到街上。在途中我一直泪流满面，眼前的东西都已经看得不清不楚。在医院大门外，我看见妈妈，抹干眼泪后，她的头上竟然出现「1」字……妈妈
……
我转身看着身边的途人，全部都在头顶挂着发光的「1」
……我呆呆地退后一步，就看着马路上的巴士撞向自己，来不及反应，我已经眼前一黑。
很光…… 很光……原来，已经天亮了
……原来我还在度假屋的露台上。多谢他的「生日礼物」，我想，我大概知道余下的路应该怎样行。
我们
……是不是要看见「倒数」，才会懂得珍惜可以亲眼看见他
/
她的「这一次」。
朋友：就由今天起，每次与父母、亲人、伴侣、朋友见面，就请珍重珍惜。要学懂世事无常。
，我以为是这样。
我每天的主要任务是紧贴着香港及美国股市，就是这样，已经花掉大半生时间。余下的时间就安置在情人、朋友、及家人身上。为了《爱得太迟》的属性，为了对家人、情人的内疚感而流过眼泪，但泪痕风化后，仍虽继续为「将来
」而卖命。为了《无事常相见》的歌词，为了曾被冷落的好友而眼浅过，但深呼吸一口气，还是要营役余生。
为了未能抽空回家团年，为了未能抽空陪女朋友验身
，我们竟花得起宝贵的时间来冷战。但我想，父母、伴侣，都是最亲的人，应该会明白的。
我的生日快要来临，但没有期待过，因为，根本没甚么值得庆祝。反而，想一个人静下来，享受一刻的宁静。在南丫岛的度假屋内，我准备感受一个较孤单的生日。
在晚上，静坐在度假屋的露台，沐浴在带有点点盐份的微风中，整个世界都变得很宁静。突然，我迷迷糊糊的听见颇陌生的声音，我再细心一点听……
原来，他在跟我说话：「……年青人，我希望今年送您一份很特别的生日礼物，甚么也可以。」
我想，我大概已经进入了梦境，跟神仙对话。我微笑回应道：
「是神仙吗？那…… 我真的甚么愿望也可以提出？」
「对。」
「那，我就希望有一双眼，能够看透每一只股票升跌时间。」
「没有问题，那对眼睛已经给您了。」
梦醒了，一笑置之。
第二天，回到战场上，我看着升得颇急的「森力钢铁」，心想
「它还可以升多少天」呢，突然间，有个发光的「3」字浮在「森力钢铁」之上。三天后，它真的插式回落了。原来，这份生日礼物是……
真的。
我善用这双上天赐给我的「眼睛」，在股票市场嬴了很多场胜仗。不过，我已经有很多天没有见过家人和女朋友了。
今天回家，一推开门，就向着自己的房间走去，隐约的听 !
见妈妈说：「明天是爸爸生日，你可以回来吃饭吗？」不过，爸爸立即抢着说：「不用回来，你忙你的任务吧！」
我放下了任务包，就走到客厅跟爸爸说：「如果可以的话我会………
」突然，我看见爸爸的头顶出现了一个发光的数字……「35」。我立即给吓呆了。之后，我慢慢回到房间，
35天后，爸爸会……
爸爸生日那天，我尽能力完成手头上的任务，回到家，爸爸已经睡了。我在房间像小朋友的哭起来。三天后，我请了假期跟父母饮早茶，看见爸爸的发光的数字是「34」……原来，这是我还可以见他的次数。慢慢地，我也看见妈妈的头上浮现了「45」这个数字。原来，看着自己跟家人的相处日子在无情的倒数，心，是很痛，很痛的。
星期天，被我冷落了的女朋友终于来电，想见一见我
。我们就相约在又一城的COVA见面，因为我记得，她很想到
COVA吃甜品，但我一直未有时间陪她。我到了好一阵子，她还没有出现
……半小时后，我看见站在大门口的她……头上面出现了「1」字，我……还看见她身边多了一个「他」。这次之后，我们真的再也没有见面。
一个星期后，我辞掉了任务，尽量陪伴在家人的左右
，用储下来的积蓄跟他们去旅行，直至爸爸患了重病 ……
直至爸爸头上终于出现「单位」数字。最后陪伴爸爸的几天，我尽量逃避正面面对他，最多也只是低下头跟爸爸说话
，因为我不希望看见「3」、「2」、「1」。
在隐约看见爸爸的「1」字那刻，我退出了病房，走到街上。在途中我一直泪流满面，眼前的东西都已经看得不清不楚。在医院大门外，我看见妈妈，抹干眼泪后，她的头上竟然出现「1」字……妈妈
……
我转身看着身边的途人，全部都在头顶挂着发光的「1」
……我呆呆地退后一步，就看着马路上的巴士撞向自己，来不及反应，我已经眼前一黑。
很光…… 很光……原来，已经天亮了
……原来我还在度假屋的露台上。多谢他的「生日礼物」，我想，我大概知道余下的路应该怎样行。
我们
……是不是要看见「倒数」，才会懂得珍惜可以亲眼看见他
/
她的「这一次」。
朋友：就由今天起，每次与父母、亲人、伴侣、朋友见面，就请珍重珍惜。要学懂世事无常。
Monday, June 8, 2009
FW: A Wonderful Thing Called Marriage
Marriage Humour
Wife:.......................What are you doing?'
Husband.... ............Nothing.
Wife..Nothing...?.....You've been reading our marriage certificate for an hour.'
Husband:............... 'I was looking for the expiration date.'
-------------------------------
Wife :..................... 'Do you want dinner?'
Husband:............... 'Sure! What are my choices?'
Wife:...................... 'Yes or no.'
Wife:.................... 'You always carry my photo in your wallet.. Why?'
Hubby: ................. 'When there is a problem, no matter how great,
................................ I look at your picture and the problem disappears.'
Wife.......................'You see how miraculous and powerful I am for you?'
Hubby: ................. 'Yes! I see your picture and ask myself what other .
................................problem can there be greater than this one?'
--------------------------------------------------------
Stress Reliever
Girl: .................'When we get married, I want to share all your worries,
..........................troubles and lighten your burden.'
Boy:................ 'It's very kind of you, darling, but I don't have any worries or troubles.'
Girl:..................Well that's because we aren't married yet.'
------------------------------
Son:................ 'Mum, when I was on the bus with Dad this morning, .
..........................he told me to give up my seat to a lady.'
Mom:............... 'Well, you have done the right thing.'
Son: ................But mum, I was sitting on daddy's lap.'
________________________________
A newly married man asked his wife,
'Would you have married me if my father hadn't left me a fortune?'
'Honey,' the woman replied sweetly, 'I'd have married you,
NO MATTER WHO LEFT YOU A FORTUNE!'
------------------------------------------------------------
Girl to her boyfriend: One kiss and I'll be yours forever.
The guy replies: 'Thanks for the early warning.'
-------------------------------
A wife asked her husband:
'What do you like most in me, my pretty face or my sexy body?'
He looked at her from head to toe and replied: 'I like your sense of humor!'
-------------------------------
Husbands are husbands
A man was sitting reading his papers when his wife hit him round the Head with a frying pan.
'What was that for?' the man asked.
The wife replied 'That was for the piece of paper with the name Jenny on it that I found in your pants pocket'.
The man then said 'When I was at the races last week Jenny was the name of the horse I bet on'
The wife apologized and went on with the housework.
Three days later the man is watching TV when his wife bashes him on the head with an even bigger frying pan, knocking him unconscious.
Upon re-gaining consciousness the man asked why she had hit again.
Wife replied. 'Your horse phoned'
Wife:.......................What are you doing?'
Husband.... ............Nothing.
Wife..Nothing...?.....You've been reading our marriage certificate for an hour.'
Husband:............... 'I was looking for the expiration date.'
-------------------------------
Wife :..................... 'Do you want dinner?'
Husband:............... 'Sure! What are my choices?'
Wife:...................... 'Yes or no.'
Wife:.................... 'You always carry my photo in your wallet.. Why?'
Hubby: ................. 'When there is a problem, no matter how great,
................................ I look at your picture and the problem disappears.'
Wife.......................'You see how miraculous and powerful I am for you?'
Hubby: ................. 'Yes! I see your picture and ask myself what other .
................................problem can there be greater than this one?'
--------------------------------------------------------
Stress Reliever
Girl: .................'When we get married, I want to share all your worries,
..........................troubles and lighten your burden.'
Boy:................ 'It's very kind of you, darling, but I don't have any worries or troubles.'
Girl:..................Well that's because we aren't married yet.'
------------------------------
Son:................ 'Mum, when I was on the bus with Dad this morning, .
..........................he told me to give up my seat to a lady.'
Mom:............... 'Well, you have done the right thing.'
Son: ................But mum, I was sitting on daddy's lap.'
________________________________
A newly married man asked his wife,
'Would you have married me if my father hadn't left me a fortune?'
'Honey,' the woman replied sweetly, 'I'd have married you,
NO MATTER WHO LEFT YOU A FORTUNE!'
------------------------------------------------------------
Girl to her boyfriend: One kiss and I'll be yours forever.
The guy replies: 'Thanks for the early warning.'
-------------------------------
A wife asked her husband:
'What do you like most in me, my pretty face or my sexy body?'
He looked at her from head to toe and replied: 'I like your sense of humor!'
-------------------------------
Husbands are husbands
A man was sitting reading his papers when his wife hit him round the Head with a frying pan.
'What was that for?' the man asked.
The wife replied 'That was for the piece of paper with the name Jenny on it that I found in your pants pocket'.
The man then said 'When I was at the races last week Jenny was the name of the horse I bet on'
The wife apologized and went on with the housework.
Three days later the man is watching TV when his wife bashes him on the head with an even bigger frying pan, knocking him unconscious.
Upon re-gaining consciousness the man asked why she had hit again.
Wife replied. 'Your horse phoned'
Friday, June 5, 2009
Fwd: Why can't shave the Armpit?
請你將這個訊息轉寄給你認識的女孩子 ，或你的姐妹,尤其是你妈吗 ,40岁以上的妇女更加不可以剃，因为这个年龄层患癌风险更加高，因為乳癌的罹患率已經高的驚人，這樣的認識或許可以挽救許多的生命
請將此信轉寄給你生命中所有的女人:母親、女兒、姊妹、伯母阿姨以及朋友。一種罕見的新種乳癌於十一月被發現。
為何不要刮或剃腋毛 : 為何乳癌最常發生在靠近腋窩的地方？為何乳癌最常發生在靠近腋窩的地方？
不久以前，我參加了一個由 Terry Birk贊助的「乳癌防制研討會」，在最後的問答時間裡，我提出了一個問題：「為什麼乳癌最常見的區域在靠近腋窩的地方呢？
當時沒有人可以回答我的問題，可是最近我收到這封信，我發現它解決了我當時提出的問題。
一位朋友將這封信轉寄給我，我把它給一位 正 在接受化療的朋友看，她說在她最近參加的互助團體中，她也正好學到這件事情。那就是「導致毒素累積成惡性腫瘤的原因是 ---- 剃或拔除腋毛。
最主要的理由是：人體有幾個主要排除毒素的區域，包括了膝蓋後方關節，耳後，鼠蹊及腋窩。它們排除毒素的方法就是「流汗」。
腋毛会帮助汗水顺着腋毛流出体外，若剃或拔掉腋毛,因而阻止了我們身體的毒 素 從腋窩排出，但是這些毒素 並不會因此而消失，反 而會因為無法排汗而儲存我們腋下的淋巴結，幾乎所有的乳癌都是發生在乳房外側上方的區域，那正是淋巴結所在的地方,可看编号16的照片，它刚开始生肿瘤的地方就刚刚好离腋窝不远，不久就会曼延到整个乳房，你若再看清楚，她腋下也没有毛，所以她也是有剃掉才会长瘤。
男人之所以比較不會得到乳癌的原因是因為他们从未剃掉腋毛，这些毒素就被阻絕在他們的腋毛之外而不會直接接觸到皮膚。 可能你会问男人每天剃胡子为何不会得乳癌，因下巴并不靠近乳房，也没有淋巴组织.
不但如此，在剃毛时剃刀可能会割伤皮肤，女人如果在剃毛之後馬上使用防汗 /止汗用品，更會提高罹患乳癌的機率，因為這樣皮膚上那些細微的傷痕使得止汗用品的化學物質可以直接進入到腋窩 。 就算你不搽防汗用品，在剃毛或拔毛时，也会暂时使腋下毛孔扩张，使细菌更容易进入，有腋毛也会帮助阻隔细菌直接接触到腋窝， 若是你觉得不剃腋毛不雅观，但是 当你看到所附上的照片后，你就会觉得不剃腋毛或乳房生癌那一种看起来更恶心了
西方洋人妇女比我们华人女性更注重仪表，但是现在她们也开始不剃腋毛了，照片上也可看到她们照样穿着无袖衣服照样出门，因为她们现在也意识到不美观总好过患上乳癌。
一名女士的乳房如同哺乳中的婦人般起了濕疹。
>她的乳房X光攝影片並沒有顯示出任何代表硬塊的陰影，因此醫師只開了一般的抗生素以避免進一步的細菌感染。上了兩次醫院後病情卻持續惡化，醫師於是再度請她去照乳房X光攝影。 這回陰影出現了。切片檢查後，發現了急速複製中的惡性腫瘤細胞。為了減緩細胞複製，先是化療，接下來乳房切除，然後又是一整個療程的化療以及放射線治療。九個月的密集治療之後，醫師們保證她恢復健康了！
>之後整整一年的時間，她過著最充實的生活，然而這批頑強的癌細胞竟轉移到肝臟！四個療程之後她決定捨棄有著續多副作用的化療，找回生活品質。她詳細的計畫最後五個月所有的生活細節，最後的幾天在嗎啡的麻醉效果下，安祥的走了。
她在臨死前留下了這封訊息，希望轉達給所有的女性朋友們！女士們！請隨時注意身體細微的變化，並且，有任何不正常的情形時，請儘早尋求醫療協助！
>乳房外柏哲氏病：這是一種罕見的癌前病變，以濕疹型態發生於乳頭及乳暈上。濕疹後來會形成一片邊緣有硬皮的傷口。我不曾懷疑這可能是癌症，但癌症找到了我。我的乳房並沒有任何異狀，我看醫師唯一的理由是因為這偶爾會發癢?
>B疼痛，十分惱人又醜陋的濕疹。家庭醫師開給我的任何乳膏都無法除去它；皮膚科醫師先前給我 的眼周皮膚病藥物也無法治好它。
讓似乎讓人感到不安，但無法使我聯想到癌症的到來。
>我懷疑許多的女性朋友們都不知道乳暈及乳頭上的濕疹可能象徵乳癌。(> 我一開始的症狀僅是乳頭上冒出一 個小痘子)。
> 柏哲氏病之所以可怕的理由之一，就是因為：乳頭上那似乎無害的細菌感染或是發炎，卻在延誤就醫後一發不可收拾。
有哪些症狀呢？
1. 乳頭有持續的紅腫、不明分泌物以及導致搔癢及灼熱感的硬皮剝落。(>我一開始的時候除了一邊乳房有硬皮剝落外，沒有其他症狀)
2. 乳頭上有無法癒合的傷口。 (>我當初的傷口分布在乳暈，乳頭中央並且有白色濃稠分泌物)
3. 通常只有一邊乳房被感染。這怎麼判斷呢？您的醫師會在觸壓檢查以後，建議您立刻做兩個乳房的X光攝影。因為正常皮膚炎的症狀為紅腫、硬皮剝落以及不明分泌物，所以醫師只有在症狀僅產生於單一乳房時，才會懷疑癌症的可能性。屆時進行發炎部位的病理切片，就能找出病因。>請嚴肅的看待這封信，並且盡你所能的轉寄給親朋好友；它可能拯救許多人的生命。
>我的乳癌在無數化療、28個療程的放射線物理治療以及持續服用抗雌激素後，依舊轉移到骨隨。如果能早點診斷出乳癌，說不定就不會發生這種事情了…。
>致所有的讀者：女性同胞不知道柏哲氏病是非常讓人難過的消息。為了幫助四周所有的女人，請將此訊息轉發給周圍的人，你可能会因此挽救一个生命.
另外还有一条重要信息请注意：
面紙(Facial Tissue)含有滑石粉塵會致卵巢癌...你不可不知面紙含有滑石粉塵會致卵巢癌. 這不是 ~~衛生紙(Toilet Paper)與面紙(Tissue)差在哪裡(屁股上)的問題喔！
以面紙取名為面紙 ,因為只能擦臉 ..衛生紙取名為衛生紙,就是要擦了會衛生的 .
>以下資料來源：永豐餘造紙股份有限公司, 以下資料提供：董事長祕書 楊祕書
以前曾看過有關衛生紙與面紙的討論,一直覺得有些疑問,所以我終於請教本公司研發部陳經理
得知衛生紙與面紙的製作差異 : 兩者均是原生紙漿製作,均有經過消毒程序,衛生紙未再加工添加任何添加物 .而面紙加工添加入濕強劑 ,
在水中不易斷裂, 所以不適沖入馬桶 ;又添加了柔軟劑及活性劑 , 紙粉(粉塵 )多 .你若不信可将面纸在空中抖几下，你会看到很多纸粉掉出来,
一般人都認為面紙紙質較好 ,就是因為添加了這些東西加工 ,也使得成本居高 , 當然售價也較高 .
因此陳經理解釋說,面紙不能當作衛生紙使用 ,尤其女孩子使用面纸当替卫生纸来擦拭下體 ,所以就算厕所里没有放卫生纸，也千万别用面纸来檫阴部。
要千萬注意,阴部皮肤敏感的人會有不適反應 .也会导致卵巢癌。
陳經理還說 ,他們本身懂得這些原理的人 ,自己家裡都少用面紙 ,儘量全面使用衛生紙.
Is it OK to shave your armpit hairs?
Many people complain about armpit hair. Armpit hair causes body odor and they are very unsightly. The negative attributes of armpit hair are
seemingly evident at first glance. Are armpit hairs really a nuisance or at the very least unnecessary to the human body?
Arguably, the smelliest part of the body is the armpit. The reason behind is that the underarm hair is a trap for bacteria, sebum, and pheromones.
Bacteria plus sebum equals odor. And pheromones?
Well they’re the sexual chemicals that the body produces and they are contributory to the growing “smell pool.”
In modern times, it is considered very unattractive, especially for women, to have thick armpit hairs. To some cultures, it is even required for
women to shave underarm hair.
While some European women don’t shave their armpits as defiance to imposed cultural codes, it is necessary for Islamic women to do so.
But in many East Asian countries like China, Japan and Korea, keeping armpit hair is perfectly normal. Even in India, it is 100% alright to keep
your armpit hair on.
While it is a common belief that shaving will produce even thicker growth, there is absolutely no truth to this at all. The reason is that the
number of hair follicles isn’t affected by shaving.
It may seem that armpit hair grows more aggressively than other hairs, but shaving the armpit occurs more frequently simply because it grows faster than the leg-hair.
Armpit hair provides lubrication and lessens the friction of the skin between your arm and your body. The production of sebum prevents the skin from drying and cracking.
Without armpit hair, the armpits would be susceptible to wounds and sores similar to a diaper rash in baby bottoms.
Sex pheromones are also spread through olfactory means, thus adding emphasis to smell. Pheromones serve to attract the opposite sex and have an important role in sexual attraction.
Connected to the armpit hair are various sensory nerve endings. This explains where the pain comes from whenever armpit hairs are plucked.
The arrector pili muscle is connected to each hair follicle and together, the hair, hair shaft, arrector pili muscle, and sebaceous gland, are
known as the pilisebaceous unit.
The armpit hair is known this way simply because it is located under your arms! Most people find long armpit hair unattractive, which may lead to insecurities and other psychosocial problems.
Rest assured that your underarm forest has its very own unique purpose. It’s just a matter of taking the good with the bad. In exchange of body odor, or being unattractively long (it depends on preference), underarm hair provides less friction to your armpits, and releases sexual hormones to attract the opposite sex.
The pheromones are the sex chemicals produced by our body to attract mates. Armpit hair acts as a collector of pheromones or a pheromone trap, if you can call it that. The more pheromones there are, the more attractive you are to the opposite sex.
The only catch is that you might stink a little, but it’s undeniable that you’re getting the attention of your potential mate at a hormonal level.
We tend to underestimate scent as a tool for sexual attraction, but no one can deny that pheromones could be useful.
On Amazon, you can find lots of Pheromone Colognes listed. These are basically colognes with pheromones added to them.
Think before you shave…
So if you are looking to completely remove your armpit hairs, think again. They serve their very own purpose. If length turns out to be too much of a bother, regular trimming and maintenance will do.
And don’t forget to take a bath regularly, especially when the hormones are starting to rage. You want to attract a mate with your pheromones, not overwhelm them. Keep in mind that armpit hairs are more help than they look.
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